By the end of the 19th century, there were three crematoria in England, although that figure quickly rose, and since the late Sixties more than half the people dying in England and Wales have been cremated.
The ashes are the property of the family, who can dispose of them as they wish - which can be anything from scattering in the country to being kept at home in an urn. It was only in 1944 that the Anglican Church allowed ashes to be buried in a churchyard (although the 1902 Cremation Act gave clergymen the right to refuse a funeral service for those being cremated unless the ashes were to be buried in consecrated ground). In that case it was entered in the church burial register. There have even been rare instances of ashes being scattered on football pitches, although clubs don't publicise this.
Cremation Records and Burial Register
The cremation records give the same information as a burial register. Permission to cremate has to be given by a medical authority attached to the crematorium (some crematoria are private, others under the control of the local authority).
However, you're not going to be able to see those records. Because they might contain information about people still alive, access is restricted to those appointed by the Home Secretary, the Environment Minister or the top police officer. That said, you can still get the information: it will simply be provided orally, at the discretion of the registrar of the crematorium, although it will be probably only be given in the case of records old enough that confidentiality isn't a factor.

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Obituaries and Death Notices
Given that you might not be able to obtain cremation records, then another route to your answers is through obituaries. They may not be as common now as they once were, but they still exist for people of note at local, regional, and national levels, and death notices can still be widely found.
Obituaries have appeared in print for the best part of 300 years (the oldest are from The Times and The Gentleman's Magazine). In some cases they can prove to be the only surviving notice of burial or cremation, at least that you can access. However, it wasn't until the latter part of the 19th century that death notices became very common. Check with a central library close to where your ancestor lived to determine the local paper of the period, and to discover where you can browse old copies. A death notice will probably include time and place of death and interment or cremation, as well as naming survivors. If there's an obituary, it's an excellent way to learn much more about your ancestor - their civic and family lives. If you know the year of death (or an even closer range), then you should be able to find an obituary (if it exists) without too much trouble. If your ancestor was in a specific trade (a butcher, for example) you might try old trade journals, and parish magazines sometimes also carry obituaries of ardent parishioners.
HOW DO I FIND OUT WHO ARRANGED MY FATHER'S FUNERAL. I HAVE JUST BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH BREAST CANCER FOR THE SECOND TIME AND I WANT TO SAY GOODBYE. I LOST TOUCH WITH MY DAD, HE SAID TO MY MUM THAT WE DIDN'T FIT INTO HIS LIFE ANYMORE WHEN I WAS 21. MY SISTER HAS DOWNS SYNDROME. WE FELT REJECTED. HE MET SOMEONE WHO DID NOT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH MY SISTER. I HAVE SUFFERED EMOTIONALLY SINCE THE REJECTION. I JUST WANTED TO BE ABLE TO SIT WITH HIM AND CHAT. IN CASE I DON'T MAKE IT THROUGH CANCER TREATMENT. WOULD YOU PLEASE INFORM ME OF HOW I FIND THE BURIAL GROUND OR CREMATORIUM, SO I CAN JUST SIT AND GET SOME CLOSURE. EMOTIONALLY I AM NOT IN A GOOD PLACE, AND REALLY NEED THIS.
i would like to know what crematorium was used but cannot get hold of this information
any ideas of how i might go about this tad?
Where can I record the disposal of my late wifes' ashes?
I DO NOT REQUIRE TICKETS FOR THE TEST MATCHES!!!!!!
according to a pamphlet entitled " THE ASHES REGISTER".
When I enter the details I constantly receive all the latest cricket news!!!!!!!!
Can you please advise?
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